how to be independent women
being independent women is not easy . most of us always depend on something " our friends our family our grades sometimes our relationships" . but being independent is liberating and at a time of gender equality it is almost necessary
you have to know what you want
- you must have dreams and goals
- you have to plans on how to achieve your goals and a time table ready for your hard work
- you must have wild imagination and you don't have time to calm it down . you have to keep going girl
independent =responsibility
it means you know what you are doing . and when you are not you are willing to take the risk
you are willing to bet on it and if necessary take responsibility for it . you don't always need plan sometimes a gut feeling is enough . being independent means trusting your instincts
independent =hard work
sometimes it will be so hard that you will forget why you are even doing it . but during every difficult period make sure to remember the reasons why you started . how will affect your life and how much you have already achieved so far . there is only one thing standing between you and your dreams and it is discipline
people will want to see you go down use that as a new reason to keep going . you dont have time to pity yourself .
*your opinion*
you can spend hours talking with people on different topics and not a single thing they said to influence your opinion . you are glad to educate yourself and perspectives right your wrongs and challenge your ideas however if you are solid on one thing other people will have a hard time trying to change your mind
take some time to think about what someone has offered to share with you and decide whether you agree with their thinking or not
you are yours*
systems and cultures don't influence you have your own way of doing things you are not afraid to be unconventional you love personalizing every experience to make it special you choose what works best for you whether or not it fits into the overall picture
your rituals and belief systems are completey yours made up from various other systems you have been inspired by
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